Sparky said perfectly
"I cried not for her death but for the lost family life and all the opportunities for love, affection and family unity that she threw away. I cried for all the pain she caused us. I cried not for my mother but because my siblings and I really never had a 'mother'. Go ahead and cry Zoos. Cry not for the mother that you did have but for the mother you should have had."
When my mother dead I was mad. Mad because she could have made i so much better. I was really relieved because her hell was now over but the hell she created with her bull shit religion still goes on with my children and even my grand children.
Cry for her, because she was truly duped. If you don't you will be like them devoid of any REAL emotion. The mindless drones in a religion that has the ability to turn their back on their own children!
Only men could create this not a god.